Guidelines for Women’s Ritual Circles
By Under Northern Skies Women’s Ritual Circle, sponsored by the Association of Universalist Women of the First Universalist Church in Minneapolis
Meetings have evolved over several years to include the following optional order of events:
- Cast the Circle by calling the four directions,
clockwise, beginning in the East (air), to South (fire), to West
(water), to North (earth), and to Center (spirit or Mother Earth and
Father Sky). The leader chooses words for the invocations and
blessings or writes her own version.
- Project own names into the Circle with the ritual
cord (braid added to each week)
- Body of ritual — whatever the leader creates
including guided meditations, speaking to a question, working with a
particular need, seasonal themes, art or craft projects, writing,
cleansing, and joyous celebration.
- Opening the Circle
- Sharing food: there is no schedule for bringing
snacks. Everyone brings some at one time or another. The leader is
not expected to supply the treats for the evening.
- Make plans for future meetings
- Announcements
- Socializing
- If you are planning to be the leader, BE CREATIVE!
First draw from your inner resources. You may also want to explore
some of the resources on the bibliography at the end of this section,
especially Calling the Circle by Christina Baldwin. Take heart,
ritual always flows, so relax. If you are a new leader, you may want
to pair up with someone who has led before; or, just plunge right in!
Remember that no one is grading you. Everyone is encouraged, but not
required, to take a turn as the leader. Members simply let the group
know when they are ready to lead.
- Plan ahead: Check with office staff about when the
building is open and determine if there is a need to check out a key
for the meeting.
- Make all photocopies ahead of time—especially if
an activity is dependent upon handouts.
- If a leader spends money for candles or other ritual
enhancements, she may want to ask the group to share the expenses. The
group may need to discuss issues related to money from time to time.
Some ritual groups have no budget and simply draw from their personal
resources when they need candles or something to enhance their
rituals.